Are men biologically
programmed hunters? Yes they are. Men want to identify the
prey
and go after it, no matter how difficult the pursuit. Maybe he went
through a lot to attract your interest. In his mind he overcame
swamp-infested jungles, killed wild beast and fought off the opposition.
After identifying and pursuing
the prey what men want is to now capture or kill it. In a man's mind
this makes him a successful hunter. To a man successful hunters are
winners. The modern men of today are more likely to say, "Excuse me
Miss, what's your name?" What men want actually, is to hit you over the
head with his club and drag you off to his cave. This is an analogy of
course. I'm simply saying that he still has that primitive need to win.
He doesn't need to win every
disagreement. He doesn't want to have absolute control. What men want
from a woman is to feel
like a winner. The book The Woman
Men Adore And Never Want To Leave can explain the subtle
ways to make your man feel like a winner and also have your own needs
met.
When a
woman communicates
confidence and trust in her man, he feels like a winner. Men
want for their woman to show positive faith in their ability
and intent
to do the right thing. Once you’re able to convey this feeling of trust
to your man you will find him to be more attentive and caring to your
feelings and needs. What men want is for you to trust that they are
doing their best and that they wants the best for the two of you. If
you feel that he's undeserving of your confidence and trust, because of
some past behavior, discuss these feeling with him. If you love him and
feel that he really loves you then overcome that natural tendency to
act distrustful and lack confidence in him.
If you sincerely believe that
he is capable and will become a better person then communicate that
feeling to him. What men want is to be their woman’s knight in shining
armor. Every man wants to be his woman’s hero. Being her hero means she
is contented overall with him. Men want and need this feeling
of approval from the woman in their life. Approval doesn’t mean that
she is in total agreement with every thing he says and does; it simply
mean that she sees the good reasons behind what he does. When a man
gets this feeling of approval from his woman it forms an attitude
within him that helps him to understand his woman’s right to feel the
way she does about things. Though understanding her point of view
doesn’t mean that he can’t still have a different one. If in your
perception he's still your hero, then make him feel like it. If you put
him down and constantly nag, he feels like a loser and acts
accordingly. He can say that he doesn't matter what you say, but it
really matters a lot to him.
Men want for their
woman to show recognition that his efforts and behavior are of value
and beneficial to her. For his woman to do this makes him feel
appreciated. When a man feels appreciated it encourages more of this
behavior. It also gives a man more admiration and respect for his
woman. For a woman to kiss her man on the cheek and say thank you is
what men want.
Space
is something men also need. You may rather snuggle for hours on a
chilly afternoon, but what men want is to spend a few hours with his
buddies watching a football game at the stadium. Let him have his time
for hobbies, sports or occasionally hanging out with the guys. What men
want is for a woman to acknowledge a man for who he is without trying
to change him. This does not mean that she thinks he’s faultless, it
simple means that she is not attempting to improve him. To feel that
she trust him to make his own improvements is what men want. When a man
feels this acceptance from his woman it makes it easier for him to
listen to her and try to understand her needs. You can bet your last
money that he'll brag about you to his friends. Especially if their
women are not as smart about what men want.
What men want from their woman
is admiration for their distinctive character traits. Take the time to
notice unique things about your man; this will heighten his feeling of
security. A man who feels secure will want to be in the relationship
and will devote himself to it. He will not want to flirt
or with other
women. Men want to adore the woman they're with,
because they feel adored by her. An encouraging attitude from his woman
is what men want. He needs to feel that she has confidence in his moral
fiber and capabilities. She needs to implement the above what men want
steps to encourage her man to be all that he can be. In return she will
not have to be worried about his caring, understanding, respect,
devotion and confirmation of his love for her.
Make the effort to find out
what men want by reading the book The
Woman Men Adore And Never Want To Leave. After putting
into practice the information in this book you'll find that your needs
are met in return and your partner will never become your ex.